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The Impact of Inflation on Marriage in Pakistan

Understanding the Impact of Inflation on Marriage in Pakistan In recent years, Pakistan has been grappling with a persistent challenge that has far-reaching effects on various aspects of daily life: inflation. The rising inflation rate in Pakistan has not only impacted the economy but has also cast its shadow on social dynamics, including marriage. This article delves into the marriage problems that have arisen due to the inflation rate in Pakistan and how couples are navigating these challenges. 1. The Financial Burden on Weddings Weddings in Pakistan are often extravagant affairs, deeply rooted in cultural traditions. However, the increasing inflation rate has added significant financial strain to these celebrations. From wedding venues to catering, every aspect of a traditional Pakistani wedding has become more expensive, leaving families grappling with higher costs. The dream of a grand wedding can turn into a nightmare when couples find themselves overwhelmed by the fin…

The Rising Rate of Divorce in Pakistan

The Rising Rate of Divorce in Pakistan Causes and Consequences Divorce is a highly sensitive and controversial issue in Pakistan, with cultural and religious beliefs often coming into play. While divorce rates in the country remain relatively low compared to some Western countries, the rate of divorce has been slowly but steadily increasing in recent years. There are several factors that contribute to the rising rate of divorce in Pakistan. One of the main reasons is the changing social and economic roles of women in the country. As more and more women become educated and enter the workforce, they are more likely to assert their independence and seek equal partnerships in their marriages. This shift in gender roles can sometimes lead to conflict and ultimately, divorce. Another factor contributing to the rising divorce rate is the increasing trend of love marriages in Pakistan. In the past, most marriages were arranged by families, and individual…

Marriage is easy

Marriage is easy Instructional Writing ``Marriage is a great act of worship that started with Hazrat Syedna Adam ali Nabiina wa alaihi salawa wa wa sallam, the means for the human race to come into existence and remain, and the reason for the birth of the righteous and the obedient ones. If the marriage is done in accordance with Shariat, it is a source of shame and modesty as well as generosity and prosperity, as stated in the Holy Hadith: *Find sustenance through Nikah (marriage).* *📖 Jami Sagheer, p.98, Hadith: 1567* *Hazrat Allama Abdul Rauf Manawi (may Allah have mercy on him) says in his commentary:* ``When the intention of marriage is good, this marriage becomes a cause of blessing and expansion in sustenance. 📖 Faiz al-Qadeer, 2 / 198 Wedding Expenses: ``The trend of spending lakhs of rupees on weddings is increasing, by Allah, people do not shy away from taking usurious loans for it. Marriage takes place by borr…

How To Save Your Marriage: The Best Tips For Maintaining a Happy, Healthy Relationship

You might think that the best way to save your marriage is to spend more time together. But what you are forgetting is that most marriages go through stressful periods, and it’s during this time that you need to focus on keeping your relationship healthy. So how do you do this? Focus on the little things. Do what makes your spouse happy and try and avoid doing anything that will hurt their feelings. You can also consider setting aside specific times in the week to spend with them. Here are some tips for strengthening your marriage by focusing on the little things!

Identify what doesn't work in your marriage It's easy to think that one of you is the problem and that if you could just find out what it is, then things would be fixed. That is not the case. Everyone has quirks and flaws that are frustrating and at times annoying to each other. It'…

اچھے رشتے کی تلاش

اچھے رشتے کی تلاش...! اس دور میں ویسے تو معاشرے کے بے شمار مسائل ہیں۔ ہر فرد، ہر خاندان، ہر طبقے اور ہر خطے کے باسیوں کے مسائل کی نوعیت اور وجوہات مختلف ہوسکتی ہیں لیکن کنواروں کو رشتہ ازدواج سے منسلک کرنے کا کام ایک مشکل مرحلہ ہے۔ کنوارہ لڑکا ہو یا پھر لڑکی، دونوں کے ہی والدین اور سربراہ اچھے رشتے کی عدم دستیابی سے فکرمند نظر آتے ہیں۔ جب کہا جاتا ہے کہ جوڑے آسمان پر بنتے ہیں تو پھر زمین کے مکین اتنے زیادہ پریشان کیوں ہیں؟ اگر یہ فیصلے ہمارے بس میں ہی نہیں تو پھر پریشانی کیسی؟

اہل علم کا ماننا ہے کہ آسمان پر لوح محفوظ میں ہمارا رشتہ بھی لکھا ہوا ہے، جیسا کہ ہماری تقدیر۔ اس کی وجہ یہ ہے کہ اللہ تعالیٰ کے علم میں پہلے سے ہی یہ بات ہے کہ انسان اپنی زندگی میں کیا کیا کرنے والا ہے۔ لیکن اس کا مطلب یہ نہیں کہ انسان کے بس میں کچھ نہیں۔ انسان کو شعور دیا گیا ہے، جسے استعمال کرکے وہ اپنی زندگی کے فیصلے کرتا ہے۔ اگر یہ فیصلے غلط ہوجائیں اور ان کے نتیجے میں پریشانی ہو تو اس کا ذمے دار کسی صورت بھی قدرت کو نہیں ٹھہرایا …

لڑکے اور لڑکیوں کی شادی میں دیری کا بڑھتا ھوا خطرناک رجحان

لڑکے اور لڑکیوں کی شادی میں دیری کا بڑھتا ھوا خطرناک رجحان 👌 ایک لمحۂ فکریہ👌

آج سے تقریبًا پندرہ سال پہلے معاشرے کا جو رجحان تھا، اس کے مطابق جس لڑکی کی شادی پچیس سال کی عمر سے پہلے کر دی جاتی، تو ایسی شادی کو بروقت گردانا جاتا۔ پچیس سال کی عمر کا ھندسہ عبور کرنے کا یہ مطلب لیا جاتا کہ لڑکی کے رشتہ میں دیر ھو گئی ھے.....

♢♢اس سے پہلے کا معلوم نہیں لیکن ھو سکتا ھے کہ دیری کا یہ پیمانہ تین چار سال پہلے تصور کیا جاتا ھو...

پھر سات آٹھ سال پہلے یہ صورتحال ھوئی کہ تیس سال کی عمر سے پہلے پہلے لڑکی کی شادی بروقت قرار دئے جانے لگی۔ یعنی محض سات آٹھ سال میں پانچ سال کا فرق آ گیا۔

اب بھی ایسے معاملات ھیں کہ اکثر گھروں میں لڑکیوں کی عمریں تیس سے چالیس سال کے درمیان ھو چکی ھیں لیکن رشتہ " ندارد "۔

یہ رشتہ میں دیری کا رجحان ھمارے معاشرے میں ایسی خاموش دراڑیں ڈال رھا ھے جو معاشرتی ڈھانچے کے زمین بوس ھو…

How to be a good Husband

How to be a good Husband “You can’t control your wife’s actions, but work on you and trust the rest will take care of itself. ” What are the 1 of a good husband? to keep your marriage happy and healthy, as a result: Develop a moral compass. Believe in yourself. Know yourself. Know your wife. Be a student of love. Be a teacher of love. Develop your emotional vocabulary. Prioritize the relationship.