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Understanding the Impact of Inflation on Marriage in Pakistan In recent years, Pakistan has been grappling with a persistent challenge that has far-reaching effects on various aspects of daily life: inflation. The rising inflation rate in Pakistan has not only impacted the economy but has also cast its shadow on social dynamics, including marriage. This article delves into the marriage problems that have arisen due to the inflation rate in Pakistan and how couples are navigating these challenges. 1. The Financial Burden on Weddings Weddings in Pakistan are often extravagant affairs, deeply rooted in cultural traditions. However, the increasing inflation rate has added significant financial strain to these celebrations. From wedding venues to catering, every aspect of a traditional Pakistani wedding has become more expensive, leaving families grappling with higher costs. The dream of a grand wedding can turn into a nightmare when couples find themselves overwhelmed by the fin…

The Ultimate Guide to Choosing the Best Divorce Lawyer   You’re probably feeling a lot of things right now. Maybe you feel sad, hurt, betrayed or angry. Perhaps you feel confused and unsure where to start. Or maybe you just feel like your world is falling apart and you have no idea how to pick up the pieces and move forward. Whatever your current situation may be, it’s important that you find a divorce lawyer who can help guide you through this process so that you can focus on recovering as quickly as possible. There are many considerations when hiring a divorce lawyer, including their cost, availability and experience with your type of case. This blog post details everything you need to know in order to make the best decision for your own personal circumstances and needs. Deciding on a divorce lawyer When choosing a divorce lawyer, there are a number of factors to consider. First and foremost, you need to find an attorney who specializes in divorce law — don’t settl…

Marriage is easy Instructional Writing   ``Marriage is a great act of worship that started with Hazrat Syedna Adam ali Nabiina wa alaihi salawa wa wa sallam, the means for the human race to come into existence and remain, and the reason for the birth of the righteous and the obedient ones. If the marriage is done in accordance with Shariat, it is a source of shame and modesty as well as generosity and prosperity, as stated in the Holy Hadith: *Find sustenance through Nikah (marriage).* *📖 Jami Sagheer, p.98, Hadith: 1567* *Hazrat Allama Abdul Rauf Manawi (may Allah have mercy on him) says in his commentary:* ``When the intention of marriage is good, this marriage becomes a cause of blessing and expansion in sustenance. 📖 Faiz al-Qadeer, 2 / 198   Wedding Expenses: ``The trend of spending lakhs of rupees on weddings is increasing, by Allah, people do not shy away from taking usurious loans for it. Marriage takes place by borr…

Dealing with Divorce? Tips for Taking Care of Yourself There’s a lot to consider when you enter into a divorce. If you’ve been married for many years and your spouse has a stable job, chances are the process won’t be as difficult for you as it is for others. However, the loss of the person who was once your partner can hit you harder than you think. There are several factors that might make this process even more challenging for you than usual. These include: Your level of self-care . Are you ready to take care of yourself? The sooner you start, the better. Neglecting yourself can have long-lasting effects on your mental health. This means that taking proper care of yourself now might spare you potential troubles in the future. Talk to a professional. Many divorces can be resolved without the need for a third party. However, it’s a good idea to speak with a professional who can offer you guidance, advice, and support on the divorce process. This will help you avoid com…

How To Save Your Marriage: The Best Tips For Maintaining a Happy, Healthy Relationship

You might think that the best way to save your marriage is to spend more time together. But what you are forgetting is that most marriages go through stressful periods, and it’s during this time that you need to focus on keeping your relationship healthy. So how do you do this? Focus on the little things. Do what makes your spouse happy and try and avoid doing anything that will hurt their feelings. You can also consider setting aside specific times in the week to spend with them. Here are some tips for strengthening your marriage by focusing on the little things!

Identify what doesn't work in your marriage It's easy to think that one of you is the problem and that if you could just find out what it is, then things would be fixed. That is not the case. Everyone has quirks and flaws that are frustrating and at times annoying to each other. It'…

لڑکے اور لڑکیوں کی شادی میں دیری کا بڑھتا ھوا خطرناک رجحان 👌 ایک لمحۂ فکریہ👌

آج سے تقریبًا پندرہ سال پہلے معاشرے کا جو رجحان تھا، اس کے مطابق جس لڑکی کی شادی پچیس سال کی عمر سے پہلے کر دی جاتی، تو ایسی شادی کو بروقت گردانا جاتا۔ پچیس سال کی عمر کا ھندسہ عبور کرنے کا یہ مطلب لیا جاتا کہ لڑکی کے رشتہ میں دیر ھو گئی ھے.....

♢♢اس سے پہلے کا معلوم نہیں لیکن ھو سکتا ھے کہ دیری کا یہ پیمانہ تین چار سال پہلے تصور کیا جاتا ھو...

پھر سات آٹھ سال پہلے یہ صورتحال ھوئی کہ تیس سال کی عمر سے پہلے پہلے لڑکی کی شادی بروقت قرار دئے جانے لگی۔ یعنی محض سات آٹھ سال میں پانچ سال کا فرق آ گیا۔

اب بھی ایسے معاملات ھیں کہ اکثر گھروں میں لڑکیوں کی عمریں تیس سے چالیس سال کے درمیان ھو چکی ھیں لیکن رشتہ " ندارد "۔

یہ رشتہ میں دیری کا رجحان ھمارے معاشرے میں ایسی خاموش دراڑیں ڈال رھا ھے جو معاشرتی ڈھانچے کے زمین بوس ھو…

How to be a good Husband “You can’t control your wife’s actions, but work on you and trust the rest will take care of itself. ” What are the 1 of a good husband?  to keep your marriage happy and healthy, as a result: Develop a moral compass. Believe in yourself. Know yourself. Know your wife. Be a student of love. Be a teacher of love. Develop your emotional vocabulary. Prioritize the relationship.